Bye Bye Bernie

I wanted to believe.

I went for Bernie Sanders early. I put my money where my mouth was.

After all, I have never voted for a Clinton, and I have been uncomfortable with Hillary Clinton since the early days of the Bill Clinton era. I couldn’t imagine then how supporting welfare reform and the 1994 crime bill helped poor people, and it’s great to see the discussions now about the negative and lasting effects of those two initiatives that she stood by her man to support.

Then there was her “evolving” position on the rights of gay and lesbian people, especially marriage equality. I mean, who could forget this?

I honestly doubt that she believed what she was saying then, but the fact that she said it just gave me one more reason to dislike Hillary Clinton as a candidate for anything. And please don’t get me started on how Clinton has talked about the women her husband “allegedly” sexually assaulted over the years.

So Bernie was a ray of hope, saying all those “progressive champion of the poor and oppressed” things I have supported since I first became aware of the public sphere.

Imagine my depression when I realized that he didn’t really mean it.

Caring about marginalized people is an action. It requires action. It requires doing. It’s not about talking, so much. It about being there and showing up.This is a good summary of the things that give pause; there are others as well.

So I paid attention to these things, I listened to my friends and acquaintances talking about his weakness as a candidate.

And then I reached #PeakBernie when he responded to the Sandy Hook lawsuit. To recap, a man murdered 27 women and children at an elementary school. Being murdered — being a murder victim — this is marginalization. It matters. We as a society must care about these things. And the family members of those murdered women and children care — they are suing the manufacturer of the Bushmaster AR-15 assault rifle because the gun manufacturer specifically marketed the gun for its macho, aggressive, man card properties. There is not really a legitimate use for a civilian to have this weapon, and given such macho marketing, it was foreseeable that some cowardly weak man might use the rifle to kill people, so says the lawsuit. I have written about this here. I agree with this theory 100% and hope that the families prevail.

Silver Fox Anderson Cooper asked Bernie about this at the Democratic Debate in March, as follows:

“Right now, families of Sandy Hook victims announced that they are going to sue Remington, who made the AR-15 which was used in the Newtown massacre. Now, they believe — those families believe that — that Remington, the distributors, the sellers — should be held legally responsible for how that gun — how their product is used. Now, the lawsuit may not go anywhere because of the bill you voted for — legislation that prevents gun makers from being sued. Tonight, what do you say to those families?”

To which Bernie replied:

“Well, this is what I say. If I understand it — and correct me if I’m wrong. If you go to a gun store and you legally purchase a gun, and then, three days later, if you go out and start killing people, is the point of this lawsuit to hold the gun shop owner or the manufacturer of that gun liable? If that is the point, I have to tell you I disagree. I disagree because you hold people — in terms of this liability thing, where you hold manufacturers’ liability is if they understand that they’re selling guns into an area that — it’s getting into the hands of criminals, of course they should be held liable. But if they are selling a product to a person who buys it legally, what you’re really talking about is ending gun manufacturing in America. I don’t agree with that.”

At this point, I don’t think Bernie understands, at a fundamental level, the basis of the lawsuit. That’s fine. He’s not a lawyer. Whatever. But when it was pointed out that he was wrong, he continued being wrong.

Like aggressively, egregiously wrong.

I would say that I think we all are aware of what happened, and Sandy Hook is a tragedy beyond comprehension. But maybe Secretary Clinton might want to apologize to the families who lost their loved ones in Iraq or Secretary Clinton might want to apologize to the millions of workers in this country who lost their jobs because of the disastrous trade agreements that she supported.

Red Herring.

Bernie. Some advice. The answer to “can the aggrieved family members of murdered women and children sue a gun manufacturer for selling a product whose only use is for murdering people?” is not “ Hillary Clinton did things I don’t agree with.”

So this is how Bernie lost my vote. That was my Peak Bernie moment. And since then, the amateur hour interview with the Daily News, the Democratic Whores comment and the throwing dollar bills at Clinton as she arrived at a fundraiser raising money FOR DEMOCRATS (among other things) have deepened my resolve to not support Bernie Sanders. Once I took off my Bernie blinders (which were nice, with bird memes and Bernie riding a unicorn), the misogyny of the Bernie Bros (which I had been mostly ignoring, hello cognitive dissonance) and Bernie’s fundamental weakness as a candidate could no longer be ignored.

I would never tell anyone to vote for Hillary Clinton. I think she is a deeply flawed person and candidate. But I cannot support Bernie Sanders any longer, as he’s not only a deeply flawed candidate, he’s also a finger wagging mansplainer whose been given the microphone long enough.

Put it down. I am tired to hearing you speak.


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  2. There is an alternative: Jill Stein, the Green Party candidate. I think you may find her position and plans on everything from guns to helping marginalized people to be more acceptable.

    1. Green Parties everywhere are coming down against women and feminism. I wouldn’t recommend voting for any of them. The Green Party of Canada voted against C-36.

  3. There is an alternative to “the lesser of two evils”: Jill Stein, the Green party candidate.

    1. She is extremely pro-transgender and erasure of lesbians/women, so no.

  4. Reblogged this on oopster74 and commented:
    Sandy Hook was a tragedy, but the person responsible was the gunman, not the manufacturer. They we’re probably irresponsible in the way they advertised the gun, but people in America are killed with guns every single day, and every so often you get another Sandy Hook. The gunmen are always the ones who are responsible. Why Americans feel the need to own and carry guns on a daily basis is beyond me. I know it’s in your constitution, but that document was wrote a long time ago, when it took a good few minutes to reload ie guns didn’t fire multiple rounds per second.

    We (in the UK) must get different reports of the politics in America as I’m assuming you will of the UK. Whereas some Americans see Margaret Thatcher as a great leader (I’m not denying she was), she utterly divisive in the UK, and you either loved or hated her.

    I haven’t seen enough of Bernie to say whether I think he’d be any good or not, but I have seen what Hilary has done (or what’s been reported in the UK), and she seems like the least worst option. I don’t know how anyone can take Trump seriously though. I mean he’s saying the populist things, but he’s promising more than he can deliver. Maybe when the democratic nomination is made, Bernie and Hilary can run on a president / vice president ticket rather than splitting the vote. I just hope the USA make the right choice, as what happens there affects the rest of the world.

  5. AWESOME CAT · ·

    Bernie and Hillary would both likely make coercive pediatric transsexualism a routine phenomenon.The trans activists are saying that Bernie is extremely “pro trans,” he’s in their pocket etc. etc. etc. Meanwhile, Hillary has a whole page of her campaign web site dedicated to the transies. All current candidates are flawed to ridiculous, idiotic degrees and I find them all to be unacceptable.

  6. He’s creepy yellowing underwear has been visible for quite a while. What’s so new about some white dude yelling, sweating and staunchly self-righteously inactive? Liked the guy a decade ago when I believed, falsely, he was for the people.

    Good to see this post, Cathy. Been wondering how you’re fairing.

    1. yeah, exactly. sigh.

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